Power-hungry boss singles out employee, sets them up for failure and fabricates mistakes forcing employee to weigh whether to expose her or walk away: ‘The final blow came when my performance grading was adjusted retrospectively’

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  • "Politics at work"

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  • My boss decided to turn face against her subordinates (my colleague and I) for reasons which I believe to be self-preservation and personal vendetta.
  • It started about almost a year back, where she had a 180- degree change in the way she treated us (without a doubt, with intent). Gaslighting me on my attitude and work performance unevidently was just the tip of the iceberg.
  • I had requested to pull out of a non-regulatory-compliant project / task. She made a comment that my natural reaction took it as a threat to my career progression / promotion. After trying hard, I
  • managed to get her to agree on a 1-1 to speak. That's where the gaslighting took place the most. I even brought up how her actions have affected our emotional and mental health.
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  • As you can imagine, things only got worse. Retaliation. Communication went to none, she started to send sarcastic, passive aggressive messages, pull work away form me rather than
  • analysts whom I've built trust with and trained overtime, displayed public differential treatment between analysts and myself, and of course marking down of
  • performance grading unreasonably, making 0 room for discussion. She even stooped up to the level of trying to break the bond between my colleague and I by pulling her into a room and asking if she was sure i treated her as a friend.
  • I was set up to fail on all occasions thereafter but proved myself on many occasions. I continued to be my best self and ignored all her political moves, many at times "proving" her
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  • wrong when she tried to catch my mistakes publicly. At the same time, I got HR and my C executive involved and aware of the matter, in which the C executive agreed that she had problems.
  • To add, she hired a colleague whom she worked with before previously (let's call him "the new manager"), and he started to execute these political acts on
  • behalf of her as well. It was psychologically traumatising, abe of power, and something which most people would have long taken the highway.
  • The final blow came when my performance grading was adjusted retrospectively. HR investigated. The new manager came out clean and shared how she blamed him for being too
  • nice and not marking my performance grading down even more in the last quarter. Their relationship took downhill thereafter.
  • My colleague and I were shifted under another newly hired manager. The migration of team was a transition that took a while (It was poorly done since this should have been immediate
  • under such a case). During so, she made the final threat to our performance grading, even after I have outrightly mentioned to stop all these acts of bu ying. My colleague resigned.
  • This boss had single-handedly broken company grevience policy and possibly even legislative employee protection on harrassment act.
  • This case definitely caught the attention of the whole company, and I believe everyone knows something is going on, but nobody knows the full story.
  • With information going around, I was informed that actions are taken to get her fired, but too much empty promises developed the trust issue inside of me,
  • especially understanding the fact that the ultimate interest of all parties, doesn't include junior members, but either self-serving or the company.
  • With my performance grading having taken a hit (which i totally saw it coming since the beginning of this issue), I made the effort to find alternative ways of getting peer feedback to support my performance.
  • Today, I have another job offer in line, a step up, I would say. However, I strongly will not allow such acts to get away without punishment. End of year results, bonus and remuneration
  • decisions are due in the next 2 weeks. I'm waiting to see how the management handles this. Im currently at a loss for what to do if my bonus has been affected by her actions because it would
  • make me feel like a fool taken for a ride and being seen as naive, plus it enforces the reality that unethical acts, lack of integrity and immorality triumphs in the workplace.

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